For Christmas, a dear friend gave me Susannah Conway‘s wonderful workbook called Unravelling the Year Ahead: 2015. I spend the evening hunched over the book, thinking and writing.
One of the questions that I’d like to share with you is: What is your Word for 2015? Susannah suggests choosing a word that will guide you through the year, a word that makes you feel expanded and inspired.
I scribble options in the margins. Words like Courage and Love, Peace, Presence and Abundance.
But the word that’s right for my coming year is Free. I feel light and optimistic as I scrawl these four letters onto the page.
Recently, I was in a situation where I felt trapped. I wanted out. I wanted to scream and rebel. But I struggled against guilt and obligation. I longed to flee the person, the place, and most importantly, the emotions that arose in me.
However I realised that, instead of complaining, blaming and running, I had to look at myself. These terrifying feelings were hiding in my inner shadows and this event simply shone a light on them so that I could examine them. And rather than resist these feelings, I had to accept them and love myself (and the other person) anyway. I understood that if I didn’t deal with my own issues, the same experience would repeat itself again and again.
So this coming year, my word is Free. It doesn’t matter where I am, what I’m doing, or who I’m with. I can choose to feel free in any given moment.
The following question is: If you lived and breathed your Word every day in 2015, what would be different for you?
If I lived and breathed FREE every single day, I would be doing things out of choice, enjoyment, love and independence. There would be no need or attachment, resentment or fear. I would stop labelling and limiting, blocking and restricting. I would be happier. I would live in the flow. I could do anything. I could be anything.
What is your Word for 2015? Then ask yourself these four questions:
- If you lived and breathed your Word every day in 2015, what would be different for you?
- List some ways you are already being/experiencing this Word.
- What can you do this year to bring more of your Word into your world?
- Choose four more words to support your Word this year. They could be anything from inspiring words to names of people to things you want to invest in…
Love it Sharon!
Thank you 🙂
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